Transitioning

I may have figured out what I want to do as far as transitioning. First things first, I need to lose weight before I try to do anything else. Then I work on being actually diagnosed as transgender. Then it's a matter of getting a breast reduction. After that, I work on getting a hysterectomy and getting on testosterone. But that also depends on if I am fertile or not. If I am fertile, then I will try to have a child first, or at least harvest my eggs. After getting on T, I will get what is called a clitoral release. (Look that up on wikipedia if you don't know what it is.) After that, I will be happy. Or at least happier. I will be physically what I feel I am anyway...Androgynous.

The Name Game

I'm still at a standstill when it comes to my name. I want something that is androgynous, like me. I want to reflect my heritage.  But I know if I use the surname I want to, my parents will be unhappy. But it is still a family name, so I don't see why. There are plenty with my given surname, so it's not like I'm the last. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck between 2 choices. Should I be Andrea Campbell Luttge or Aiden James Campbell? I like both names. Aiden shows my scottish heritage more, but Andrea would keep my family happy. *sigh* I don't know. If i choose Andrea, I can go by Andy, which would be easier for my family and friends to adapt to. But on the other hand, Aiden works too. And I could go by A.J., which is unisex as well. *frowns* I just don't know. Any ideas, anyone?

I am me.

I think I may have figured out part of the puzzle. I am what is called Androgynous. I am neither male nor female, but a ccombination of the two. Im still not 100% on the name just yet, but at least I have figured out what gender (or lack of) I am. I think Andy would probably still be the easiest name for everyone, but Aiden suits me too. Dont even get me started on middle names, lol. So for now, I am Aiden Campbell. I am a 24 year old Androgyne from Glendale, AZ who is learning to play guitar, be themself and appreciate life. Thats all I can figure out at the moment. But it's a start.